Relationships will always get back to one person - and that is YOU. You are a part of what you are experiencing. Understanding that, is, in itself, a big step forward.
Your level of awareness and your ability to step up and take responsibility in your life for what you are experiencing in your relationship will determine the quality of it.
Start making what I call those necessary connections in your life, and start your journey towards a better appreciation of who it is you are, and how you can improve your relationships.
Once you make the connection that you can only experience or receive what it is you are giving yourself, you then start to see how your behaviours and attitudes may be impacting your partner and the life you are both struggling with together.
At the end of the podcast below, I offer a FREE no obligation offer to have a relationship coaching session with me - I encourage you to step up, and see where this takes you.
This can be done as a couple, or individually. The key takeaway here is that the more awareness you can build around yourself, and your relationship, the more you can consciously do something about it.